DaterGraph helps you log, visualize, and understand your dating life over time.
It turns personal experiences into private insights—revealing patterns that are hard to notice in the moment.
You choose what to track.
Dates, conversations, emotions, outcomes, pauses—anything meaningful to you. DaterGraph is flexible by design, not a rigid checklist.
Yes. Your data belongs to you.
You control visibility, sharing, and participation in any aggregated views. Nothing is exposed by default.
Community benchmarks show anonymized, aggregated trends across users—like averages or distributions.
They’re meant for context, not comparison.
You can opt in or out at any time.
Some community charts are configured with thresholds that their data volume must reach before they can be viewed. This helps in part with data anonymization, but also to provide more meaningful insights.
No.
Individual entries are never visible to other users. Only high-level aggregates are used when you opt in.
Not at all.
Incomplete data is expected. DaterGraph works with gaps, pauses, and changes—because real life isn’t consistent.
You’ll see trends over time, recurring patterns, and shifts in behavior or outcomes.
The goal isn’t judgment—it’s clarity.
No.
DaterGraph doesn’t match you with people. It helps you understand your own dating experience.
Yes.
You can export your data or delete it entirely at any time, directly from the app.
There’s a free tier to get started.
Advanced insights, deeper analytics, and premium features are available with an optional subscription.
Community charts are built only from users who explicitly opt in, and only as aggregates: averages, counts, and distributions. Individual entries are never displayed anywhere, and each chart must reach a minimum data-volume threshold before it becomes visible to anyone.
Opting out takes effect immediately. Community charts are recalculated from current data, so your entries are excluded from every future calculation. Your individual data was never visible to others either way.
Community charts are computed from live data when you view them, not from stale snapshots. They always reflect the current opted-in community.
Real logged data only. Community charts never include synthetic, extrapolated, or purchased data.
We never sell your data, and your journal entries are never shared with anyone. We use a small set of service providers to operate the app, such as crash reporting, purchase processing, and install attribution. These handle operational data like device identifiers and diagnostics, never your journal content.
The app does not directly collect your location. Venue information comes only from what you choose to log. Standard analytics services may receive approximate, device-level location (such as a general region derived from your IP address) as part of routine operation, but never your logged entries or your precise location.
Features like Dating Wrapped use AI to write short summaries based on your own server-computed statistics. AI use is covered by a separate consent that you control, and truthfulness guardrails keep generated copy tied to your real numbers.